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Oct25
Who Can Handle Negative Blog Comments?

I was especially interested in Mack Collier’s four alternatives people have when negative comments come to blogs. Over at MarketingProfs.Com in an article titled, “In Ignore 'em or Embrace 'em? How to Handle Negative Blog Comments,”  Mack said…” One of the biggest concerns companies have over starting a blog is how to deal with negative comments. If your blog accepts comments, then you have four alternatives when you receive a negative comment to your blog.” negative comments.jpg

1. Ignore them/delete them.
2. Antagonize them.
3. Attempt to pacify them (or 'shut them up').
4. Address them.

About number 4 … Matt said… “This is always the best course of action. You can't please all your customers all the time, but you CAN listen to them.” I agree.

After reading these though, I’d like to toss  another alternative in the hat for trial, it’s from a brain based perspective.  Use
good tone as a way to build goodwill even among those who disagree. At the same time, I suggest business leaders show a genuine willingness to change … based on what is said in comments from those who stop by. It could just be my business that attracts so many fine and intelligent people, but I’ll bet yours does too. Tone allows the differences to surface so that we all learn from one another’s unique perspectives.

Interpersonal intelligence is highly underrated as an effective tool to build customer trust and employee confidence.  
What does good tone look like? The comments and feedback offer unique opportunity for business growth. Even negative feedback,  provides a singular opportunity to develop and use interpersonal intelligence.  

Negative comments, handled with good tone ... can  open  improvements through people's suggestions for better business benefits and mind-bending profitability.  In the art and science of blogging, comments offer the grist of customer growth - even those that come from customers with poor tone. What do you think?


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I would like to remark that I am not surprised when I receive negative comments. Life is a constant stream of feedback, some negative and some positive. Blogging entails descriptions of opinions, responses or actions which people can choose to disagree with or agree with.

Great point, and it makes me realize that we think of different things by the word negative.... These keen insights sparked another post - with thand for expanding our insights on this one.

"In the art and science of blogging, comments offer the grist of customer growth..."

And that's true of positive AND negative comments! Well said, Ellen.

I handle them only one way: chunking down on their reality by asking why why why. And yes. Why.
It gets them questioning their own premise!

What a great idea - using the notion and skills for reflection! Thanks for suggesting it!

It is not a must for the owner of a blog to reply to every comment. Since everyone has their own way of thinking...the owner can simply reply to a comment as a way of contributing toward the topic being discussed or disagreeing with a comment made if they feel so. If bloggers and those who make comments on blogs hold themselves to the same standard, there will be no pressure on anyone to reply to a comment perceived as negative while those who make comments will not fear to take divergent views because they know that they are just expressing themselves and no one is required to reply to their comments. What I know about the so called negative comments is that they simply may not agree with what the blogger is discussing. While postitive comments shows a shared understanding of the topic, you can benefit from negative comments by seeing the opposite point of view unless you are stuck on the fact that everything you have expressed is the fact and the truth...and there is no otherwise. Seeing the other side of the coin and challenging it are both constructive and intelligible ways of dealing with negative comments as well as not putting yourself through the agony of responding if you don't feel like doing so.

Great insights here, John, and I am intrigued with the way you are looking at negativity here.

I would have thought that looking at opposite viewpoints takes great tone - rather than seeing these as negative comments.

Have you found that to be so?

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