
I suspect this blog will likely stir up a few critics ... who'll tell us how much we need their brand of criticism…. I’ve been asking about polarities between critics and creators lately … Here are a few questions I plan to tackle over the next few weeks... from the perspective of brain based business strategies:
1. What makes one person a critic and the other a creator?
2. When you think of who you’d like others to see in you ... is it a whiner or an innovator? ![]()
3. What side of the room would you sit on – if invited to choose between finding fault in people's plans ... on one side ... or creating plans of your own to improve things ... on the other? How would you defend your choice?
4. What would you teach in a session to help staunch critics to learn how to create?
5. What piece of music best describes creators you know and what portrays critics? Play them and decide which music works best for you....
4. Create a circle of men to answer the question: Why do men make stronger creators than do women? Have the women listen in with NO response. Then invite women to the center ... while men listen without response to women discuss… why do women make stronger innovators then men?
5. What holds you back from creating a solution to the next problem on your list to criticize”
6. What would one day look like without one word of criticism and with dozens more words of suggestions and support? Try it for one day!
Critics often start a social conversation with words such as … “Get Real!”
Creators start with a reflective questions such as …”What if…?”
I know what some of you are likely thinking … "But… we need critics to help us get things right…." Do we really?
Trouble is we rarely get things right under criticism … because it creates chemicals in the brain that shut down innovation. Somebody said… if criticism is good … how much more so encouragement …! That’s likely why these two come from different sides of the brain – it is rarely possible to do both well. If you’re tired of criticizing … and interested in creating solutions … try reflection … and why not start with the innovators question … What if…?











This is a terrific post, Ellen. Too many people give themselves permission to criticize in the name of helping the other person(s) "make it better." But you're right, criticism shuts down innovation and elevates defensiveness.
Years ago, someone described the difference between criticism and effective feedback this way: Picture handing someone a pair of scissors with the open blades toward them. That's criticism. Now picture handing them the scissors by holding the closed blades and the handles facing the other person. That's feedback.
Hey, we should do a bit of co-posting bringing both our experiences and expertise to bear on a topic we like. Interested?
Posted by: Dr. Tammy Lenski | September 18, 2006 2:45 PM | Permalink to Comment