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Jun29
Reflect to Make Choices You Can Live With


When Charles Dickens wrote, “Reflect upon your present blessings - of Reflection.jpgwhich every man has many - not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some,  he was really referring to a situation similar to a recent commenter here at Brain Based Business. The reader of my June 28th blog, Cortisol Shuts Down Your Ability to Communicate” showed the power of reflection to move from stressors that work against the brain… to well being that sets us back on a path to better outcomes.

Reflection, the first sign of any improvement… showed up in a comment….

“...I pondered that if I had been cut off by another driver resisted the urge …”

Reflection that leads to inner growth improvement, often starts with deep inner questions and an openness to learn something new….

“… what had I done?
…Had I controlled my anger or had I suppressed my aggression?
… had I actually achieved biological mastery of my physiological response to external stimuli?

…had I actually hidden my natural response to this external stimulus, and thereby allowed my natural aggressive reaction to grow and fester within me?
…What now of cortisol?
…How do we master our natural "fight or flight" response? “

Whenever we step back from what we do and think,  to question as this commenter did…, we are reflecting in powerful ways that will improve our performance the next time stress hits. Reflection leads to answers that escape many who no longer know what it is like to live without cortisol – the hormone for stress and illness.  

They also help us to think about the blessings that actually rewire the human brain's capacity to take in more blessings that otherwise pass us by.
What do you think?

Reflect upon your present blessings - of which every man has many - not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some,

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Ellen:

I am fascinated by the power of reflection. Do you see any downsides to being reflective ?

Galba, you ask question questions - a sign of reflection right there:-) If I am being paid to run a bus and I am deep into reflection and rear end a car -- that would be a downside. I'd not thought of downsides - but like most things - balance is best:-) what are your ideas?

Yes Ellen:

I certainly see myself as a reflective person. I think the downsides are that reflection can be misplaced when one is faced with urgency, as you say. It could also possibly be a trap if I apply the wrong "decision rules" once I've reflected on something and erroneously go and do something that worked well in the past, but is not appropriate in the new situation that I'm facing. Probably a good precaution against that pitfall is to ask 2 questions, 1 what is similar about the situation that I am currently facing, compared with what I've experienced in the past and 2, what is different?

3 upsides are that I experience are that 1. It helps to me to learn more efficiently. For example, I have developed a personal learning tool based on David Kolb's Learning Cycle and I use it to review my Learning Programmes and presentations and I use the learning to guide my future action. Systematically using that tool also sparks ideas for new products and services.

2. Reflection also helps me to avoid needlessly committing the errors of the past.

3. It helps me to remind me of my core values, so it's a wellspring of my intrinsic motivation.

I promote the benefits of reflection in my Emotional Intelligence Work, as I think its the cornerstone to developing greater Emotional Intelligence.

For me, the ROI on reflection is amazing. I wonder what you think?

Thanks Galba - In today's post at Brain Based Business ... I made a few comments today in response to this fine insight. Great motivation to inspire another day!

Thanks Galba - In today's post at Brain Based Business ... I made a few comments today in response to this fine insight. Great motivation to inspire another day!

Thanks Galba - In today's post at Brain Based Business ... I made a few comments today in response to this fine insight. Great motivation to inspire another day!

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