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Jun 3
"I Know That Already..."


Jason shared at a conference I gave on how the brain helps or hinders success Thinking again.gifat work, "My boss carries this cup around that says “I know it already…” and then the middle manager went on to explain how his boss rarely listens and often interrupts him.  Jason's problem got the entire group thinking about how the human brain likely misses new learning opportunities whenever we think or say, “I know that already…” 

In order to test our hypothesis ... the group looked at opposite sides of hot  issues they'd discussed at work that week.... The goal was to see how an oppposite view can usually offer you new answers. Need solutions  that bring you closer to success on your job? Start with an area you feel strongly about ... then talk to different people until you can articulate their views ...in a way that person would agree with how you described their different ideas ….


This can be fun because it gets you communicating on hot issues ... with people of many ages, backgrounds and experiences.... If you feel immigrants are an asset at work,  talk to a person who feels foreigners detract from the job…. If you think more college degrees should be necessary for promotions at work... talk it over with people who’d rather go with experience instead…. If you feel salaries at your firm are fair for most, talk to people who say they're unfair for some… Do the same to hear opposing views on healthcare, equity, outsourcing, age ... and any other topic that may tempt you to say, “I know that already…”

If the best solutions rarely come to those who sense they “know that already” answers spring alive for  people who  hear, and articulate the other sides. I'm talking about hearing and communicating opposites in a way that those who differ from you ... feel heard and respected. What do you think?


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Great post Ellen. The neat thing about this exercise is that in seeking to be able to articulate the other side you effectively remove emotion from the equation. The person attempting to articulate the opposing views has a job to do which allows them to listen more objectively!

What an interesting insight, Ann.... Thanks for coming by.... I had not thought of the role of this practice to zap out the emotion that tears down discussions before they get the good stuff on the table.... But you are right! Thanks for the take that could help us hear and value one another at deeper levels... Makes life a real ride!

Hi Ellen, I have learned so many practical tone applications from you and this is truly one of the best!

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Robyn, thanks for your kind words.... and thanks for the exemplary tone you model....Lately, I have become more concerned that the national brain has seen more attack than tactics for tone.... I am quite amazed at the number of leaders I meet who struggle with tone... and who lose good business deals because they lack a skill they could learn... What do you think?

Ellen, I sense a lot of tone problems stem from ego and arrogance and folks with this mindset are quite unteachable as you point out so well. In other blog posts you point out that folks who learn from others such as Robert Wegman, or who listen and learn from customers, such as Singapore Airlines and Sears Customer Service are the ones who will gain and keep the most customers.

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